Oh, I know it's about the comfort. (Unless it's an actual kink, like, sex-wise, or, well, some people read horror books, tastes... differ :) ) i understand completely :) It's why I can read psychological abuse and emotional angst. I'm just not so good with the physical. There's such horrible shame in 'letting' people overpower you like that and not being able to do anything about it, for me anyway, that I just can't handle it, even in theory. But I really am ok with others reading it and understand why they would :)